Some parents give their children everything that their children ask for or allow them to do whatever they want to do. Is this good for children? What could be consequences for these children when they grow up?
解析
本题复现2019年7月27日原题。
父母对孩子有求必应，这是不是对孩子的爱？对孩子的爱到底怎么表现？过分溺爱对孩子的未来会产生什么样的影响？大家可以先讨论过分宠爱孩子对孩子的现在是好还是坏，然后讨论这种做法对孩子的未来产生的影响。有求必应，似乎是在对孩子表达爱，但同时也让孩子失去自控能力，使孩子缺失规则教育。这样，当他们长大成人后，面对一个需要规矩的世界，孩子们就会不开心，对生活失望，从而离群索居，甚至走向反社会。
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高分范文
It is true that all parents tend to spoil their children as a natural sign of showing love. Nevertheless, the negative effects of over-spoiling in childhood can well last into adulthood.
While there is nothing wrong withshowing a great deal of love to children, over-indulgence isdefinitelynot good for children.As a matter of fact,parenting is about lovingchildrenwithout spoilingthem,whichmeansthat parents have toreinforcegood discipline in their children. Without good discipline, children would neverknow what self-control is.Unfortunately, too often things go the other way. That may explain why spoiled children are on the rise in modern society as many parents give their children everything that they want to have or they want to do in order toplease them.
Thespoiled childrenarelikely to grow up to beunhappy andunpleasantadults. They mayfeel unhappywhen they arenot allowed tofulfilltheir wishes immediately. Also, they would turn into unpleasant grown-ups for being narcissistic, believing that they deserve “special” treatment without having to follow rules in social situations.When they grow up, then, the over spoiled children will find it hard to cope with the real world and end up either isolated or antisocial.That is why we can always trace back the drug takers and criminals to their family background where they were excessively spoiled children.
In conclusion, spoiling is bad for children because it can really hurt their long-term development.Spoiling children is easy, for it is always done in the name of love, but it will be really hard to repair their broken adulthood.
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笔记
It is true that all parents tend to spoil their children as a natural sign of showing love. Nevertheless, the negative effects of over-spoiling inchildhoodcan welllastintoadulthood.
（1）本段直接提出话题，并表达自己的观点：溺爱孩子会对其成年产生负面影响。
（2）Childhood儿童时期
（3）Last 持续
（4）Adulthood成年时期
Whilethere is nothing wrong withshowing a great deal of love to children,over-indulgenceis definitely not good for children.As a matter of fact, parentingis aboutloving children without spoiling them, which means that parents have toreinforcegood discipline in their children. Without good discipline, children would never know what self-control is. Unfortunately, too often things go the other way. That may explain why spoiled children areon the risein modern society as many parents give their children everything that they want to have or they want to do in order to please them.
（1）本段论述溺爱孩子是错误的，但当今社会这个问题却越来越严重。
（2）There is nothing wrong with………没有错
（3）Over-indulgence过度放纵
（4）As a matter of fact事实上 （= in fact）
（5）…is about………指的是……
（6）Reinforce加强
（7）On the rise处于增长中
Thespoiled childrenarelikely to grow up to beunhappy andunpleasantadults. They mayfeel unhappywhen they arenot allowed tofulfilltheir wishesimmediately. Also, they would turn into unpleasant grown-ups for beingnarcissistic, believing that they deserve “special” treatment without having to follow rules in social situations.When they grow up, then, the over spoiled children will find it hard to cope with the real world andend upeitherisolatedorantisocial.That is why we can alwaystrace backthe drug takers and criminalstotheir family background where they were excessively spoiled children.
（1）本段论述被宠坏的孩子长大后会变成自己不快乐，也不让别人开心的人。
（2）Fulfill one’s wish满足愿望
（3）Narcissistic自恋的
（4）End up最终变成……
（5）Isolated孤立的
（6）Antisocial反社会的
（7）Trace back to…追溯到……
In conclusion, spoiling is bad for children because it can really hurt theirlong-term development.Spoiling children is easy, for it is always donein the name oflove, but it will be really hard to repair theirbroken adulthood.
（1）总结前文的主要观点。
（2）Long-term development长远的发展
（3）In the name of以……的名义
（4）Broken adulthood破碎的成年
